It’s pretty much a given; there are a lot of therapy blogs out there, and we all write about the holidays.  Most posts fall on either side of a line: are the holidays good or bad for a person’s emotional health?  They have a point, since solstice holidays are family holidays, whether genetic or chosen, and family is intense for everyone. That said, this idea of an event (or anything!) being simply good or bad is a falsehood...